Hi Trish - I am getting sooo much help from your conversation here. May I chime in with a couple of simplistic questions?
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He suggested we take in the Basketball game on campus tonight. I was thrilled. A chance to spend some time enjoying something together.
We went home, changed our clothes and got some dinner. By 6 he was no longer interested in going. I shrugged it off (wish I had a better response to this, as he sees it too easy to disappoint me.)

Would it be possible, in these situations, to go anyway? Have a good time - umm, demonstrate that you have a good time, with or without him?
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had read in the saturday paper about a Choral performance by the University Choir to be held Sunday night at 7:30 and had asked him if he had any intrest, "Yeah, but ask me on Sunday." he had said,No committment.

Hmmm, I get this A LOT from NG - any idea why they do this? With NG, I wonder if it is a control thing...

Fascinating stuff, Trish. Wishing you a good Wednesday. Slowly

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