Antlers sorry about this. your ExW's behavior is very common. The Christmas parent lets the kids run while because of guilt. The kids take advantage of this because they are angry. So they act out. I would ask their school counselors to intervene and maybe guide you. I don't know if your Ex can just paxk and move out of state while the kids are still under age?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
