Hi Confused. My take? You are on the long ride for as long as you can take it. It's almost as if he is daring you to leave. If you do, he'll look at that and say, "see! It's her fault". That's a lot of what it is really - a blame game. No telling how or if things will change, but if you can stay put and keep moving along the same path, then I suggest doing so. Don't let him make you the bad guy and do NOT allow him to cross your boundaries. He needs to respect you and your boundaries even during this time.
Hang in there C. Sounds like things are in limbo now, but it won't stay that way forever.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
