Thanks WH. I had a pretty emotional day, but managed to make myself as distracted as possible. Yeah, my H last night said that he did see all the changes I made, and that he sensed they were quite deep. However, his resentment is such that he can't let it go. After 2 years??? I think it's more a choice at this point frankly. Yes, it is their loss. So, I am happy to let go and get some peace in myself.