Backslid slightly today on my way towards detachment;\

Was submitting a cell phone expense report and ended up reviewing the log of calls from the last few days. Noticed an odd # from a call W had yesterday and ended up opening my big mouth instead of internalizing it. Turns out it was my W's 'friend' who had passed OMs email/number and coordinated a meetup between the two a few weeks ago.

W said conversation was rather casual and didn't want to share with me b/c she thought I would go crazy. As I reflect, I probably should have internalized and just let it go, but looking back on it i see now that I won't go crazy b/c my W spoke to this 'friend.' I guess that's something positive.

Anyway, I feel like it was a minor slip-up toward detachment and nothing major to be concerned with.


Me (34), W(30)
3 kids (7, 5, 1.5)
Married 9 years