Originally Posted By: Crimson
It really is a crappy way to be as it relates to other people, isn't it? Sometimes I wonder if some of that dripped into the behaviors that my wife didn't like in me.


Ya think?!?!?!?!

Originally Posted By: Crimson
It's very hard for me to let life happen when I know that it is going to result in something negative for me - I try like hell to fight it.


Hmmm, a series of negative things have happened while you didn't just let life happen. And in the snippets when you've acccepted life as it happens, things temporarily improved.


Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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