Here's my BIG question...

She again brought up the idea of doing marriage counseling with the same therapist that is doing her independent counseling. I told her I had to think about it.

I'm not sure what to do! On one hand, she's actively ASKING me to go to MC with her with a therapist she trusts, unlike the previous MC. However, I feel like they have an established relationship and ideas...

Thoughts?


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done