Hi Betsey, Go ahead, I don't mind it being on the bb. I realize I thought T was being cruel and insensitive. But I think it's beyond that. I think "Quiets" observation about T baiting me led me to a new place, when next T attacked. I didn't know WHAT I was dealing with. I think it goes beyond or maybe deeper is a better word, than crazy making. I wrote you a long version which I will cut and paste here to follow. Fire away......... Hugs and love, Trish