Saving my marriage even she file for a divorce

[MrBond]

I think calling you stubborn is very appropriate because you want a quick list of things to do to get your wife back quickly. You have to understand that it will take alot of time and patience to do this.

I don't know how many times I can say this to you. You start being a good father and show your wife you are responsible and that will bring her back.

What you're looking for is someone telling you exactly what to do. No one can do that! Every situation is different but the thing that they all have in common is that you have to back off from your wife and give her space!

Okay, you want steps? Here they are:

1) Leave your wife alone
2) Start spending time with your son ALONE.
3) Write a list of all the things that your wife complained about you. A detailed list.
4) Then write a list of all the things that you will do to correct those things your wife complained about.
5) Get a new haircut and a change in clothes. You have to change both outside and inside.
6) While you are making your changes, don't tell your wife you are making these changes. These changes have to be for yourself. If you keep telling her you're changing and expecting her to notice, she won't believe that your changes are real.

So first things first.

Write your list here. What did your wife complain about you? Make it as detailed as possible.

Next, tell me exactly what you've done to spend more time with your son.

Then write down exactly what your latest interaction has been with your wife.

I really am trying to help you and if you haven't noticed, I think the other people who are on here are scared to answer you because you have to do what we suggest even though you don't understand it.