Ya Know what? Everyone just ignore my last two posts.
There is nothing I or anyone else can do.
He is either going to be a !@#$ or not%^&*(. Nothing I say or do is going to make any difference.
I just have to give it up and concentrate on me.
I would love to know whether or not I should bring out the fact that he can't wait to get back up there and meet with her....but to do so.....just makes me sad....and won't stop him. I was hoping it would at least take the fun out of it all, but if I complain in anyways, he will see that as a victory and if I don't then i'm the dumb sap for being so guilable.
I have to look at this as though I have better things to do than try and work on this marriage because obviously, he thinks he has better things to do......so...... His focus is not here....it's elsewhere...