Ya Know what?
Everyone just ignore my last two posts.

There is nothing I or anyone else can do.

He is either going to be a !@#$ or not%^&*(.
Nothing I say or do is going to make any difference.

I just have to give it up and concentrate on me.

I would love to know whether or not I should bring out the fact that he can't wait to get back up there and meet with her....but to do so.....just makes me sad....and won't stop him.
I was hoping it would at least take the fun out of it all, but if I complain in anyways, he will see that as a victory and if I don't then i'm the dumb sap for being so guilable.

I have to look at this as though I have better things to do than try and work on this marriage because obviously, he thinks he has better things to do......so......
His focus is not here....it's elsewhere...

Which means nothing is going to change....

Good to vent it out, here, I guess.