Hi Jc. That is good news on the job front. A beginning.
Send that supervisor and the interviewees a thank you note. You made a good impression. You never know where it will lead too. Life is long my friend.
It is also good to not say anything to your wife on the job front. I would make sure before you leave for the out of state job that you do not have to legally require to give your wife any info. Just to be safe.
Your bad behaviour. If it is something to truly set aside. Do not bring it up. A waste of time and money. Stuff happens.
Allow that moment to build your self esteem if that was your goal. And move on. Put it away.
You really only have to talk about it if you get in piercing. Else its mute... And has no ramifications on your current Reality.
You know what I am going to say on the wife's facebook..... I know its a tough one.
Ignore but record the pattern that you are thinking.... This is you dealing with post traumatic stress disorder.
Only in time will you discover that it actually is a pattern.
And business like. Yes. That is how it will become when there is nothing worth fighting about or getting the upper hand on.
Your goal is to keep it business like as you know she will change it when there is something she wants.
P.S.
Stop the mind reading.
As for second marriages ?
Depends on how you grow from this one.
The first one is still not over.
Remember this one can begin again if equality is restored and you both learn , heal and grow.
Keep working on leading by example.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
