W is going to her brother and SIL house this weekend for cancer walk in their town. W and S will be leaving Friday morning. She asked if I was going to come on Saturday. I have not answered yet.

They live near the beach. I expressed interest in going when the plans were made, so that I could have fun with S in the ocean.

I get along with her brother, SIL, and their kids just fine. But she has told her brother of her intentions to D.

I am hesitant to go. I would like to have a little fun in the sun with S. A fella needs to see the ocean every now and then to remind himself how large it is and taste the salt in the air.

I don't want for things to be awkward for the others though.

W asked if I was going in a text so its hard to tell what she would rather me do.

Any advice?


Me-33
W-28
S-5
M-7
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