She may never learn differently unless you show her a different way.
I think this may be true.. and that's what I'm struggling with.
I kinda just don't wanna teach her anything.
But it's not just a lesson for her, it's a lesson for me as well.
And that's the perspective I need to have.
For example: w cashed first two payments after grilling me about not sending March's payment because she didn't cash my previous payments....
... so once again I have to not send April's payment to show her that I was serious and that she does not get to keep money that is dedicated to me paying my health insurance.
Is this a healthy move - sure..
.. but it's frustrating nevertheless
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
