Stuck in Holding Pattern

[ben11]

I could, but I don't see a point. I'm trying to persue my W again. Slowly. She never felt like I made her feel like she was special to me. I dont see how ignoring her for another 17 days is going to benefit our M. I've tried that. Didn't work.

And yes, I've been following ricks thread as well as about 20-30 others. Doesn't seem like the wisdom seems to be helping in his case unfortunately. I don't think it's as simple as a cookie-cutter approach that everyone seems to stress. I'm still GALing, working on 180s, etc, and won't stop doing those ever. However, I need to find a different way to make positive steps in my M.