Ben- if I were you I wouldn't respond. You have said your piece, she knows how you feel, now it is time to back off and hopefully she will reflect on what you wrote. I am working really hard to not respond to an email my husband sent me. It was just a strategic email and didn't REALLY need a response though he asked me a question in it, but not one that needs an answer- if that makes sense. Normally I'd just write back something like THANKS!, just to respond because that's my way. But I'm not going to. He knows I check my email a lot and will have gotten it, just like your W knows you got her text.
Sorry about your transfer not going through. Seems like when it rains it pours. But try to think of it in terms of it wasn't meant to be. Did you already commit to moving? Did you already sell/break your lease on your current place?
Me-32 H-31 M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs No kids, 3 pets H estranged father passes away- 8/11 Bomb- 1/15/12 Began LRT- 4/1/12