Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[imthemom]

Hey Mish.
Im doen ok...just tryen to keep up

We never did come to an agreement, I dont actually even understand why they contacted us to try...they made no attempt at compromising on anything. There offer was so low, and they never budged from it so we go to court on Wednesday.

I dont know if you read it but about 2 months ago I posted when my S15 came home from hanging with his friends and I could tell that he was high, and then STBX wouldnt even come over to talk to him with me. I was so upset that S15 would do that and he had said he did it to get his Ds attention. Well, a couple of days ago S15 comes to me and says he needs to get something off his chest that he wasnt honest with me about.
He said he didnt exactly tell me the whole truth that day and that he had actually bought the marijuana from some kid (he had told me someone had it and he tried it)..and when he came home he had hid the bag in my garage. A week later when his D finally come over to talk to him he told his D about it, his D had him go in the garage and get it, bring it out to him in his truck and he took it and got rid of it for him and told him not to tell me.
Not only that but my son had text him before he talked to me and told him he was going to tell me cus he felt bad for lieing about it, and STBX tells him, ok go ahead but keep my name out of it and dont tell her that I knew.
UNFREAKENBELIEVABLE!!!!!

this is a man who is a recovering alcoholic and goes to AA....and he decided that the best way to handle it is to teach my son to be dishonest instead of being acountable and just telling me the whole story. When i spoke to him he said he felt like the damage was already done and it was the right way to handle it...i told him that I have been always honest with him and kept him involved and informed and you didnt think I should have been involved in this? he said "everyones parenting skills are different".........I could literally pull my hair out..

but on the up side I was so proud of my S15, he fessed up on his own. I would have never known and i told him that showed so much maturity and integrity and that I was really really proud of him for that. I guess Im doing something right after all...even with his D encouraging him to be dishonest, he still made the right choice...:)

coincedently ...i have a meeting with my L today before our court date on Wed. I plan on telling her to see if this will help my case at all...Im thinken he fell from the stupid tree...and hit every branch on the way down....