Well I met my new CPA today. My waw gets the old one. She is a bit older and wanted to know why I was there. I am surprised at how candid I was with her. In the end I told her my goals are to be the best friend to my W and not to expect anything other than that. She said you will be surprised if you can keep that up. I could tell she was talking from a previous hurt spot. I asked if she divorced, Yes was the answer. My goal: to be gentle and non judgmental, to be extra kind with her hurt feelings. When she is ready she will start her own process. And to be the best me that I can, All will fall in line if I stay positive and strong>
