It's very hard for me to accept that my W is this new person. Not because she is so different, but rather because she is so uncaring and unforgiving. I understand that everyone wants to be young again and live life to the fullest, but we can't stay in our 20's forever...at some point we need to sit down and realize that life is pretty good in your 30's and beyond.

I keep hoping that this "new" person my W has become is only temporary, but I don't know. What I do know that I, my family and friends, and our kids have noticed that she is different, but no one from her family sees it. Kind of amazing once you sit down and actually think about it.


Me36, W38
S12, S3
T20, M4
Bomb dropped 8/18/11
Moved out 8/18/11
Filed for D 10/20/11
OM Confirmed 11/5/11