Not having a good time of it here.
In fact every moment this is getting harder and harder.
As I type, H is on the cell phone( MY CELL PHONE) with his Attorney/OW.
Going over the case.
He didn't want to call her during non business hours.....for fear she think he was coming on to her, but never the less, he did. And when she did'nt recognize the number?? He just said "oh, it was one of his many cell phones!!", not " It's my wife's phone. "

UGH!!!!!!!!!
Now I am sitting here trying to be calm and cool but I am absolutely exploding inside.
Last night I found an old condom in his wallet! It fell out when I went to get some cards for a transaction we were trying to do. He claims he forgot all about it being there.
What a horrible twenty four hours this has been.
Now to top it off my D21 doesn't want to drive all the way down here for T day because of the stress and I can't blame her!!
She doesn't know what's going on, she is just upset with us in general.
I don't think I can stand this...I feel like running away! Any where but here!!!!!!!!!!!
I just typeda long email to H and want to send it soooooo bad........it( the email) sounds so reasonable but I feel so out of control.