Seeing Lawyers tomorrow...even more hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

I agree with you Accuray that it is probably difficult to make the final cut, but like you said it would be hard not say well "Ummmm this is your fault that we're doing this..."

I am mentally preparing myself for the day he finally comes to get his things. I would think that the stuff that is still at our house is stuff he kind of needs...like a bed (which is his grandma's and he knows that I don't want that), TV stand, couch, and his military memorabilia. Not that he needs the memorabilia but I would think he would want that.

So, when he does come I am going to try to really act 'as if' because I do want him to see the happy side of me even though this is not what I want.

I also want him to see the happy side, because when we talked last and saw each other, we argued about separating things and his affair and I'm sure he's thinking that this is how it will be the next time we see each other.

He could even try to get his things when I'm not home since we work opposite schedules, but he has not done this either. It just confuses me...