Why would you want to be friends with someone who walks over you? Why are you validating and consoling a woman who fired you ? Why do you still believe her?
You really need to embrace reality here.
Look at yourself and really ask yourself if this is the man you plan on becoming.
It is very unhealthy the path your planning on going down.
Reality will be good for both of you.
This ^^^^^.
Hoser, I'm glad your wife changed her mind on the "plan" you had in place, because it was a recipe for disaster and cuckoldry. How would you have felt sitting in YOUR OWN HOME, watching your wife get all dressed up nice and sexy to go out on a date with another man? THAT is what she was setting you up for!
I strongly suggest that you stop having any financial conversations with your wife, and seek -- and then USE -- the advice of a good family law attorney. You're trying to appease and console a woman who does NOT have your marriage's best interests at heart right now, and that's recipe for disaster.
Let an atty do the dirty work -- your wife will have to pay for her proportional share of your joint marital expenses. Use this time to work on YOU, and once again becoming the kind of man that attracted her in the first place.
