Once Reconcilliation Has Occurred

[Underdog]

Trish,

I'm busy chasing my naked D7 around, but I want to give you a hug (((((Trish))))) and remind us both where we started together a year ago.

Shall I remind you that this dynamic is something a crazymaker does when he needs something from you? What does he need, Trish? If he was reverting to the past behavior, he would get a reaction, which would make you do what? And he would get what from that?

You got angry and he would then do what???

What purpose did his anger serve? And because he allowed himself to use his anger to blame you for making him do that, he could escape culpability in his mind because you provoked him.

So let's short circuit this dynamic. What is triggering HIS fears?

Let me reassure you, my friend, that this isn't about you. It's about him. Remember me? Betsey? It takes one to know one. And your H and I aren't too different...

Back to the drawing board. Shall I pretend I'm a shark again and we can dance this one through so you get some answers?

Hugs my dear friend.

Betsey