Quote: I have this feeling that I am not really wanted here. That although it's okay, he's having a nice enough time at the moment..and can tolerate me as long as there are no problems, that actually he would rather it be with----fill in the blank--.
So the question is, why ISN'T he with all these other women?????
WASs seem to be quite happy to confide a lot of details about the OW with their own Ss for some reason. Using us like a confidant. H told me that OW 1 was the most compatable W in bed that he had ever experienced. Boy, was I peased to hear that!!!
Yet this same W gave him the old heave ho!
Look on the bright side - if he told you NOTHING about these wonem, you might feel he was keeping everything from you. Would you? What would you actually like him to do? Not mention anything about them ever? You could see his willingness to share with you as trusting you with his confidences.
Just some thoughts.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
