WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

I had a tough weekend. My w has been fighting or just arguing that she needed to her own taxes this year. Turns out she needs the info on my tax return just as I need her info. Our forms are still united. I have been saying that for months. Not protesting just stating the facts. Anyways my w seemed to soften. I told her I need to know the date for separation. My w told me it was November 2010. I told my w since I did the taxes last year and you agreed I left it as married. My w said that she told her L that was the date. I told her with the Govt.they do not know I will put the date as 1/1/2011. My w said ok. I told her we need to do child custody payments since we are separated. My w again did not know. I was stressed out I have been doing the taxes all sunday afternoon. I got frustrated and I told my w that I will take it to someone as I am too stressed out and it is a little more complicated than being married. My w was clearly frustrated. Questions about this and that. I felt overwhelmed and told my w that I have always done the best I can financially. I let my w know that I never felt that my w had my back. I never heard that I was doing a good job. I always hear that I didn't do that and this. I told my w that I need to have someone tell me that I am not a screw up. That I am doing good. My w did not know what to say and she went to the other room and cried. My w said that she was crying at her choices. My w would not elaborate.

I let my take our taxes over to her SIL house. BIL did our taxes. He spent a few hours. but figured it out. This was a tough night. but the text it will be easier.



My BIL ended up helping with our taxes.