Had a brief text exchange with XW tonight. She had written a letter to me and gave it to S17 to give to me. He gave it to me this evening once we got back to my place. It was a bunch of legal crap expressing her "parenting time rights." It wasn't angry but very business like. When I read it, I sent her the following:
M: "I got your letter. Please stop using S17 as a messenger."
XW: "I didn't. I was planning on giving you the letter but S17 offered to give it to you. I thought it would be best since the last time we talked, you were angry. He does not need the stress. I would love to have a nice conversation with you, but you just can't seem to do it."
The question is:
What do I do about this:
"I would love to have a nice conversation with you, but you just can't seem to do it."
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13