Isn't being compassionate going to make him feel more guilty? More shameful? I guess the only alternative is to be cold and mean and I won't do that. I said my piece about it when he brought it up. Now I need to move on. I guess I am wondering how our relationship can improve if he is too guilty to be around me?
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
