WAS contradict themselves. They are on the own emotional rollercoaster as well.

It's always easier to give advice then to take it.

And best not to mind read either. Trust me.. it will drive you crazy.

When it comes to acting as if.. vs.. standing up for your marriage. It is not a "one of the other" deal.

You can totally do both.

Standing up for your marriage shows strength.

Not allowing this pain to paralyze your growth and happiness is showing strength.

And being a strong, confident woman is very attractive.

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.