It's hard to be in this spot. I wish so bad I could get him to want to at least work on it with me. I know if he would make that decision, he would be on the path to us fixing things and I have no doubt we could fix our problems, I just can't get him to open up to the possibility at all. He did finally call and he is going to see an Individual Counselor on his own, and he told me he got the name of a marriage counselor. Which sounds positive, but he says he is doing it because of how we keep getting into these drawn out discussions about our relationship that go in circles about the same things over and over again. To him it is divorce counseling, it is all about a better divorced relationship. I don't know if I have much hope it will do any good for the marriage part of things with the way he is looking at it.
M 36 H 36 D9,S6, Expecting D in August 2012 M 13 T 18 Told me he wanted to separate 12/31/2011 Moved Out 2/2/2012 Didn't want to work on things, wanted divorce 4/20/2012
