I know the OW is just a fantasy. But then I second guess myself and think that maybe he is in love with her. Maybe he wants to marry her. I am empowering her and I need to stop. I just can't understand it. The man I married would never have done this. He is truly sick. Truly messed up in the head. I just need to let him take his journey I guess. One of these days he is going to need a friend. His family sure won't be there for him. They never have been. OW has no idea what demons he has lurking and how many skeletons are in his closet. I know and I love him anyway.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"