I read your update a couple of days ago, and was at a loss about how to respond.
One question, what did you think of your H's plan all those years ago to live separate lives (two houses etc) for financial reasons? Did you really think it was a great idea, or did you merely feel obliged to go along with it for some reason?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
