NRTS (Not Repairable at This Station)

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Bad news, I had such a bad reaction to my last tetanus shot 10 years ago that I was told to never get one again....

My little dog just hates getting combed. And for an 11 pound dog has quite to jaws on him! He is a Tibetian Spaniel and they have nasty little tempers on them.

It is still seeping blood. And my hand has swollen dramatically. If it is worse tomorrow I will check in with my doc. I think his tooth hit the bone.

Tomorrow I go to the lawyer with the terms my H and I came up with for the D. I went over them again with him to make sure we are on the same page. Now he wants to add in a statement that if I remarry or cohabitate that I give up the spousal support.

I know the remarriage part is common. But I think he is looking for ways to argue about this all of a sudden.

I told him I am pretty sure I am not going to remarry anytime soon. If I remarry before I'm 55 I lose my military benefits. I also told him I planned on buying myself a house and that I didn't think it would be any of his business who stayed in that house with me. And he said he didn't want to be supporting some man.

Then I asked him did I get to say that if he remarries or cohabitates that I should get more money because his needs would then be less, because she will have a job? At which point he got grumpy.

I pushed on anyway, and said that it sounded to me like he wants to divorce me, but still tell me what to do.

I know the law says stuff about remarriage and cohabitating. But I don't exactly know at what point cohabitating becomes an issue.

Hypothetically, say I get a boyfriend who owns his own home. And I own my own home. And maybe we spend weeknights at his house because it is closer to his work. But spend weekends at my house because I have a better view.

Would that be a problem? Any opinions. And guys who have an opinion I want to hear the male point of view.