Dan- sorry you're in this situation again. It sounds like you are a great dad- focus on yourself and your kids. I'm new to this and therefore cannot offer you any answers or advice but just wanted to give you some support.
Me-32 H-31 M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs No kids, 3 pets H estranged father passes away- 8/11 Bomb- 1/15/12 Began LRT- 4/1/12
