Not sure where to start, Part 2

[hopingandpraying]

I wish I could help you there. I'm sure it is horrible to hear him talking to her like that. My heart would break if my H was being so open about it.

Don't feel defeated! Know in your heart that you are better than that fantasy that he is having! That's what I have to keep telling myself about my H and his gf. I know what the OW looks like and other things about her and I still can't understand how he is picking her over me and all we've been through, but I know in my heart and mind that I am better than her and he just likes the rush that he is feeling with her!

You are really doing a great job! Stay strong...maybe he'll come around and if not, you will be that much stronger. I don't like when people say that to me, but it is true!