Thanks for posting on my thread! Im glad to know that some things that I've posted has helped you. It helps to read others posts. I know it does me.
So I've just read through yours, and it's helped me. Your WAW sounds like my WAH. And yes we LBS go through a PTSD of sorts. It's horrible, and I feel for you! I know, I really know how it is.
I agree with Val and Cadet. Time to set boundaries and stick to them. Warning: This is when they get really pissy! Especially if you've been rather accomodating through the relationship... like I always was. This is a good 180 because you need to stand firm and not allow the cake eating. Now that a year has passed for me post bomb, I can look back at my boundary setting and find it comical. I wanted to choke XH at the time, but Im telling you it's funny.
Remember this, which is the hardest part. THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU... IT'S ALL ABOUT HER RIGHT NOW. It's so hard to remember this as they point the finger at you and all your faults, at the same time take up with another person. Dealing with the rejection is so hard.
