Also today, he came over and we had said yesterday we would spend a family day focused on the kids, well, he wanted to leave and do something alone with them, basically didn't want to be around me at all. I should have just said yes, but I said I wanted to try doing what we had planned. He did for awhile, and I did good on my part to not put on any more pressure, keep things light, even went outside with my son to play ball for an hour or so, and he ended up getting mad and wanting to leave because he just couldn't move past yesterday. Yesterday was bad.
I didn't engage with him and told him to take the kids, I didn't like to see him upset and don't want to be the cause of it, and go do what he wanted and I am home feeling like I just majorly messed up progress from the trip so bad and I feel like he is so impenetrable on his course for divorce.
I know I need to just stay off him and not contact him at all and let him initiate anything from now on to fix this right? And be positive and good when he does contact me? I just shot myself in the foot with the past day and feel sick about it. I'm making things worse and watching myself do it, but having such a hard time remembering how to act when we get into the moment.
M 36 H 36 D9,S6, Expecting D in August 2012 M 13 T 18 Told me he wanted to separate 12/31/2011 Moved Out 2/2/2012 Didn't want to work on things, wanted divorce 4/20/2012
