While my W hasn't ever mentioned D, it's been 7 months and she still has tons of her stuff here. Who knows why they leave it or why they wont take it... Chalk it up to another mystery of the WAS.
Don't spend too much time on the whys. As you are coming to realize, you come to very few answers.
M:28 | W:28 | T:4.5 | M:2.5 | No Children EA1 Uncovered: Jun 2011 EA2 Uncovered: 2011-09-29 S: 2011-09-29 I'm moving on: 2012-05-08 My story: http://bit.ly/K3ttPM
