How long have people stayed dark and then saw some kind of progress from their H or W?
It seems like a month or so is where things might start to change. MWD does say something about that in her book where if you're DBing productively for a good month you will start to see some changes in your S. Obviously, every situation is different but I did see progress in my sitch after a month of going dark before H changed his mind.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
