wow just found this thread &
it's asking all the questions which have been on my mind lately

althou i suspect byron's not done with MLC &
his attitude has been that he's definately not home yet

he does seem to be conflicting a bit in his actions
& has started to make himself a bit more at home in the hometel

i'm thinking i'll be coming here to ask questions
& continue in my MLC thread to journal whats happening

i'm not really feeling that we're piecing yet
but since he's for the moment back in the bed most of the week
i quess i should be looking at this more as piecing / reconcilliation?

i've been feeling torn to about looking at it that way
since in june he was so insistant that he wasn't coming back

i've been doing 95% good about putting no pressure on him to come home
or to work on our marriage problems (ok i slip 5% of the time like putting in the Marriage breakthru videos hoping he'll actually watch it in the morning)

so i'll be checking here on a regular

thanks for starting this thread