Hi forward,

You know, when in a new relationship they say not to compare the new with the old. But how can you not do that?

I think that only in a new relationship can a person begin to see aspects of the last R they were in. I mean we can sit here and speculate and re hash it all. But in a new relationship it is there you can look back and see what worked and what didn't. Maybe things in the new R don't work that did in the last R.


M=42 XH=44
M=18 T=21
D14 D11
Divorced 4/2012
XH marries OW 6/2014.