Yes, you H is a wuss. And she is a dangerous whack job and I would take out a restraining order against her if she doesn't knock this cr@p off.
But it says something about your H, Wendy, that he's willing to write off such behavior as just "girls will be mean". You're going to be SOOOOOO much better off without a man of such poor integrity in your life.
Once you're out of there, and living YOUR new life - you're gonna be surprised at how good it is.
I could (and did) forgive a man who got lost or lonely and cheated. But one who would allow his mistress to harass his wife? He's pathetic and not worth it. Really.
