I get so upset when i think of breaking the family.how do i get someone with fears of intimacy to realize and actually open up.instead of focusing on the core issues in therapy he tells me he talkabout divorce.but when i say what do u wanthe is always ambivalent.one day he wants to be married,the next he doesnt know if this can be repaired.i believe it can with hard work not sure he can do that. Am i a fool here?