Yesterday we listed the house. I was pretty amused that H was suprised that the Realtor told him she wouldn't put it in MLS until a whole bunch more work was done.
And she basically wants half the furniture in the house taken out, and all the junk gone. I have been packing stuff away, and have about 20 more boxes I was planning on putting all my personal stuff in. (Depersonalize the house is hard) anyway H had taken the boxes I had already packed and shoved them in closets I had been cleaning out and making look pretty.
The Realtor explained to him the rule of thirds. When showing a house cupboards and closets should only be 1/3 full. So people can envision how much of their own stuff they could cram into that space.
So maybe with some manpower I can get a couple loads taken to a storage unit.
I believe OW may have found this site and be reading what I'm writing. She sent me texts complaining about my complaining and playing the poor pityful me act. And this is the only place I have complained. If that is true then it proves she was the one who hacked my computer.
But as we all know that won't matter to my H. Last night he just told me that he was trying to stay out of this stuff and that girls are mean. Yep. And some girls are way meaner than others.
And so much for calling the phone company and blocking her texts and calls. Evidently that didn't work......
Today is going to be finish a quilt day. My birthday is in a few days. I'd like to do something nice for myself, and getting that quilt finished would be something that would make me happy.
Life is short and we should be enjoying every minute of it.
As I have been cleaning and sorting and reorganizing this house I have found various old journals of mine. I've always been a journaler. And flipping through them and reading them brought one thing to my attention.
I've been unhappy for YEARS! and I blamed my weight, I also spoke a lot about feeling so distant from my H, though we were right there together in the same bed.
So now I've lost much of the weight I wanted to. And have solved half the problems I wrote about. But losing weight didn't fix the distance between myself and H.
So here I am just stepping through the steps to get to that New, Beautiful Life I Am Creating For Me!
Aloha All,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
