Thank you both...i know that this will take time and patience. I think that separation is going to be key for me. It's been a roller coaster these last few weeks and I feel I'm ready (or close to it) to begin detaching. I recently started working out again and have reached out to friends who I haven't spoken to in almost 10 yrs.

Last question for the group that I was hoping to get some insight on....I was approached by my company about possibly relocating from Pittsburgh, PA to Philadelphia, PA. Better job, better pay, etc...From my vantage point, I see this as an opportunity to have a new beginning for my family. Yes, the baggage still comes with us, but we get to work on it in a new setting. The In-Laws are also in the area, which gives us a chance to mend fences there too. Am I wrong in thinking that this type of move could be a good thing for my family?


Me (34), W(30)
3 kids (7, 5, 1.5)
Married 9 years