No, L&L, not really. He has said some vague things like "this was the last straw"... we spoke for several days after he left about working things out, then he decided not to. He told me things that would have to change, I agreed, then he decided it would not work anyway.
As for the 2 months he was gone, I have no idea what he was doing, but he says he did not go out with anyone or anything like that. He said he called an old gf but she didnt return his calls.
He got irritated at me asking him questions last night, asked me how I would like it if the tables were turned, and I told him I would think I was getting off easy if the tables were turned. He looked ashamed and said he was sorry. He is willing to work on things, but in a way just wants to put it behind us.
you're right, I need to db my butt off! I need to be the woman he loves and wants to be with, not a shrew!
"Being at peace with yourself is a direct result of finding peace with God."
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Phillipians 4:7