I'm sorry to hear about your latest developments, Horse. I'm in a similar situation in that my W wants out and is planning on getting her own apartment starting June 1st. We have been separated for the last two weeks, me living in our new home which we took possession of April 15th and her staying at our condo which she has to be out of at the end of May. Our 9yr anniversary is May 24th so I feel your pain frown We also did the separate bedrooms thing for a week and to be honest I'm much happier being in my own place right now. It is hard not seeing her everyday but at the same time the distance does lessen the pain to some extent. Hang in there, like everyone here says, time is your friend.