Basically no contact or talk other than S. We are still sharing the same house. I listen with interest if she shares a tidbit about her day, and then go on about my life. I have not heard any more about moving out, but I don't think she has changed her mind at all.
I have been unconcerned and quite upbeat. I wonder why she continues to be so depressed with her tone toward me on the phone or in person. So strange to me. Quite monotone and without any emotion the majority of the time. Why not just be normal?
I have faced the fact that our M is over. Perhaps maybe, just maybe, there is the slightest chance for a new R between us in the future. I am no longer holding my breath.
I had the same behaviour from my W,, cold, distant and uncommunicative.....I stayed 'As if' and happy and she got confused but still wanted us to separate...her behaviour got worse until the Tension blew at another big R talk
She wasnt getting what she wanted...separation, SPACE, time to think, NO PRESSURE (all in her eyes of course)
After another bomb, I said I would move out and then she became, all nice, pleasant etc, even to the point of grooming me just days before I moved out (eyebrows!)
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
