that is very well said. stuff to think about. i find myself starting to detach i guess. W didnt call or come home from work till late. i was fine with that. didnt really care. when she did come home she wanted to "talk". which means yell at me and tell me how horrible i am. didnt really phase me. usually after this i cry. no tears came this time.
alby- been thinking alot about you. hoping you are doing okay. keep your head up. i know its hard. keep posting. i look for your posts and keep hoping for you to be doing okay