Yep quit mind reading. Watch her actions instead, and then take them at face value. Do not over analyze.
One piece of unconventional advice I give guys is this:
Pretend you and W are already divorced, and you are ready to date again. What type of qualities, attributes, talents, physical looks, lifestyle, etc would you deem important to attract and KEEP the woman of your dreams?
Develop these traits as much as you can, odds are your W will notice and find herself drawn to you again.
