I don't want to pry, but has H actually given you an explanation AT ALL of why he suddenly disappeared from your life and then just as suddenly reappeared?? So there was no OW, no old GF, no sex... so what - he took a mystery vacation?
I don't know if insisteing on SOME kind of reason, now or at any later stage, is the recommended route. Maybe you should just proceed on the assumption that he has had some kind of A (EA, PA, whatever), and start with dbing your butt off, as if? Anyone?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
