Renee, what do you want from this relationship? I think you need to sit down and ask yourself this question. Once you do, I think you need to be objective and ask yourself if you will get it. If you are just content with settling for something, then make the most of it. I don't think he is going to be the person you want him to be. Renee, you aren't going to change him, I think you need to understand that.